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Rachael Ray Protests Too Much
By Clara
Freeman
I want women to understand that I have been where
many women in a relationship, or, marriage woes have to go and believe
me when I tell ya, "Too much talk can kill the message that all is well
in your world." Okay, so it is really nobody business if your man is cheating...
that you have cheated on your man...It is for you to know and for the world
to butt out. However, the mistake I see and hear many women make when they
are on this journey of perhaps pretense and denial; They simply 'protest'
too much!
Rachael Ray has become a household name. People
wanna know what is going on in her celebrity marriage to her musician,
lawyer, husband. That is just how gossip works for so many of us who lead
an otherwise mundane existence. We need, feed and digest a juicy bit of
tidbit and if it appears that the person, usually the woman is miserable
and for some sick reason, it becomes more tantalizing gossip to chew on
for days, months and years down the line.
Rachael Ray is to be commended for trying to appear
nonchalant, stating to Lara Spencer, the Friday gossip guru on Rays show,
that she and hubby just laugh it off and think it silly, while they are
drinking martinis in the kitchen and being lovey-dovey (yeah, right) I
am not a Rachael Ray basher here. I am saying to all women, you do not
have to act/speak on people who gossip about your personal business. You
do not have to go on record and deny that something is wrong in your relationship.
People are going to gossip. We all know that celebrity
news sells. I wrote a gossip column for a spell, but, the mag was a startup
and frankly, the monies was not worth the effort...But, I digress. If you
are a Star who does not want the public to know your business, keep your
mouth shut and hire yourself a good publicist, someone whose not just in
it for the money.
For all of you regular folks, like me, I have a
word of advice for when gossip rears its ugly head. Mums the word, ladies
and gents. Guy Finley is one of the motivational writers/speaker that I
love to quote when I am giving my own little spill on learning from living
life experiences. '"Your opinion of me is none of my business." You see,
if we are being honest, we all, at some point, celebrity, or not, need
to be liked. The realism being, "not everyone is going to like you."
Women, when you are the butt of nasty gossips,
I advise you not to despair and please for the love of all things private,
keep your mouth shut, because this too shall pass; as life goes on...
Clara B. Freeman is a freelance writer/poet/columnist
who advocates for women, children and the elderly. To learn more about
her work, or to comment on this article, email clarawriter@att.net
Clara B. Freeman is a freelance writer/poet and
columnist living in Illinois. To learn more about her work, visit her website
http://www.clarawriter.com
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